Stay 'til the End!
You know the line about opera: "It ain’t over till
the fat lady sings." The same is true about Sunday
Mass— and no, the "fat lady" is not the cantor.
She’s us-all of us-the church! Sated (miraculously
with just a morsel and a sip), stuffed on grace, a
bit tired from sincere thanksgiving &
sustained praise, the assembly has to finish this
liturgy before it’s over. Would the cast leave
before the final curtain? The orchestra before the
finale? The team before the final buzzer or last
out? At Mass, we are all the cast, all the
orchestra, all the team.
The end of Mass comes quickly: After the silent
reverie that follows communion, there is a prayer
and a hymn. Some announcements follow, then a
blessing and dismissal, and final song. So is it
really isn’t asking too much of each other to see
it through to the very end? Sure, you might be
blocking in someone’s car in the parking lot, but
if we all stay till the end, what difference does
it make? Of course the little ones are antsy; we
all are at this point. A few minutes more won’t
hurt (nor will cries & squirming).
And yes, not slipping out early means rubbing
elbows with everyone, people jamming up at the
doors and a procession of cars crawling out of the
parking lot, but isn't this a consequence of the
communion that we just shared? Isn't this how we
know that we are becoming what we have shared: the
body of Christ, risen from the dead, going out
into the world to give to others what has been
given to us?
It's a simple act of kindness - finishing the
liturgy before leaving. And if we slow down just
enough to finish our liturgy, maybe we’ll slowly
learn to finish well other things in life too. And
when we learn to relish and not rush the ends of
things— the last minutes of a movie, the final
words of a conversation, the last hand of cards
and the final set of pins to knock down— what we
are truly learning is to relish and not rush the
end of our days— a final act of gratitude that
gives God praise.
Copyright ©1998 Archdiocese of Chicago: Liturgy
Training Publications 1-800-933-1800 written by
David Philippart.